Expect The Unexpected

How to overcome fearful beliefs and take on life and its adversities one step at a time…with faith.

“Every failure is an opportunity to begin again more intelligently.”

Too often, we hold back or we delay and procrastinate something we were meant to do simply because it is uncomfortable and yes, because it scares us. TO DEATH. The weight of the expectations makes the task of doing it oh so overwhelming… that we would rather skip it. And of course, move on to watching random cat videos on YouTube or start browsing movies and shows in Netflix.

Yet, if only we would hold no expectations to be perfect, or to have our “shit together” and not worry endlessly and just begin. The progress is in itself a reward and we would be glad we started it earlier. It’s not so easy either to just have no expectations, I am aware.

We MUST stop resisting the change knocking us at our doors… and just open our hearts and be receptive and willing to all circumstances and scenarios life tries to provide us.It really is so magical to practice this state of gratitude and optimism which comes when you let it.

So let it come and let it flow through you. YES! Instead of being all guarded up, break those walls down and be trusting in the universe that you’re already where you’re supposed to be: In the right place, at the right time to be whatever you intended in being. It keeps you open to all experiences which will further your growth and keep you alive and present to your surroundings.

Take it as it comes and drop those bullsh*t expectations of yours. In order to enjoy life, we must keep moving forward and persist in our efforts. Just expect the unexpected to happen….all the magic is right in front of you if you know how to see it. Once you do this, I promise you’ll be swimming afloat all your problems and will glide through it all. You’ll get to see through all that chaos and you’ll find eternal peace within which comes in knowing that…”This too, shall pass.”

Choose to say YES to all that matters.

Idea of Perfection

Falling in love, failing to fit in, failing elsewhere in life, comparing happiness and success, experiences, speaking up, writing from your heart, going out wearing your bold look, wearing your heart on the sleeves, trying new things, dancing to the beat of your own drum, challenging your beliefs, comfort zones and living a little more –BEING YOU may all seem daunting to the soul… but trust me it ain’t troubling the soul. It’s your comfort zones that are feeling threatened. The idea of perfection chains us down to the fear of what may go wrong but baby, we’ve got the whole damn galaxy within us.

~sincerely, your inner voice

What is this idea of perfection? Where does this come really from?

Perfection is an outlook, perspective or as I like to call it “seeing through tinted glasses” by which one views everything–life, struggles, daily experiences, self- worth and others around.

More often than not, they are disillusioned and far off from the “reality”. It seems as if it has already plagued the younger generation where they’re always so preoccupied and conscious about their “looks” when they haven’t even hit puberty yet or reached adolescence. Even as I write this small article… I’m filled with the voices or an idea of what is a “perfect blog post” in my head before even getting started!  

DON’T GET ME WRONG…Perfection or at least striving towards a better result, goal/performance from oneself or others optimistically to reach closer to unlocking or discovering their truest level of potential is not wrong. Yes, we need to have a vision for ourselves to continuously remind and push ourselves towards our purpose so that we are aware of exactly what we need to do next to achieve our goals and desires. However, it is wrong when we let the fears override us and hinder us from taking actions fiercely. It starts to affect and hit us really hard when we are constantly overthinking many of the trivial things… only to realize, they hadn’t been so important in the long run. 

We must NOT succumb to the fears and be afraid of the uncertainties, hardships, or failures that comes along when faced with adversities. In the end, we only regret the chances we didn’t take. Quit holding on to this idea of how YOU expected situations to be like it. Face the reality which is going to be nothing like you hoped it to be… they’re meant to be embraced. Simply let go of the things you have no control over and just smile. Be glad you took on a journey towards self- improvement..or chasing excellence, forever inspired towards creating yourself, building  skills and most of all, taking it as a learning lesson. 

Disappointment= Expectations–Reality

Sooo.. “obsessive”, maladaptive perfectionism is detrimental for us and can keep us away from enjoying and trusting the process and forgetting about the ” bigger picture” in mind. 

This is my very first time writing about topics which always sparked within me tremendous joy and excitement… Kindly, do give me feedback so I can also deliver content which is closer to your hearts!

~Fighting!^^

The Journey Begins

Thanks for joining me! 

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton

I’m enthused to be writing my thoughts on life inspiration, the struggles, the good and bad along the way which accounts for the experience and sharing a never-ending commitment towards learning something new every day. My goal really, is to bond emotionally by relaying my “learned wisdom” and keep you amused and pumped up to do the same and face the many challenges to pivot your life and get to the “other side” with an awakening sense of purpose and clarity in your ambitions/goals, etc. All that I have yet to become, I am becoming.

Through writing on this platform, I wish to create content that reflects “self-expression”.I really hope that we all can embrace the bitter-sweet journey called life and live it as a great adventure. 

~Cheers!

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